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Post by ludi76 on Feb 15, 2013 8:18:16 GMT 1
But they still went on board last summer... And about the link between JD and VP, thta's true but I know divorced persons who never meet again even for their children.
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Post by Guest on Feb 15, 2013 8:35:07 GMT 1
I never said they don't have enough money I meant that when you split you want to leave everything behind- sell properties that you once shared, pretty much every former couple (owner of properties) do that, no surprises here. Not everybody wants to be totally done with their ex especially if they have children together. Johnny and Vanessa will never leave everything behind; they have two children together. It benefits the children when ex's can get along! Even after the kids are grown there will still be birthdays/weddings/grandchildren etc. Once you have children your are connected to the other parent for life. I personally don't think that Johnny and Vanessa are on bad terms with each other. I think they are mature enough to understand what is best for their kids. I don't think they're on bad terms either. Vanessa's vague words were far from being hateful,they were more like analytical and thoughtful. But sometimes,when one or both parties still have feelings towards each other,they prefer to not have contact. It 's possible that there's still residual love,and also sadness and even madness at the other.So they might prefer to not have contact to be able to work all the feelings out. It doesn't necessarily mean being on bad terms.
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Post by shellysmom on Feb 15, 2013 15:00:45 GMT 1
Even if you have a lot of money, think how much it costs to maintain all the residences, the island, the yacht/yacht crew, the jet/pilot, security for them & the children, travel, lodging, employees, agents, publicists, caretakers, socializing, children's education, saving for retirement & kids' future needs, cars, guitars, designer clothes, private chefs, personal trainers, expenses of Johnny's production company/record label/publishing venture, accountants, attorneys (lawsuit this summer vs Johnny by the drunk woman from Dec 2011), providing for family & aging parents. I think they've been trying to sell the yacht for the last couple of years, coincidentally about the same time the original break was rumored to have happened (2010). That's when the rental ads began appearing prominently. Now there's an incredibly beautiful brochure of the entire boat, including profiles of each crew member. Kind of made the sad statement to me that it was no longer the family's private refuge. I totally agree! Even people with money need to make good financial decisions. There are many celebrities who had "lots of money" at one point in their career and ended up making bad decisions and losing it all. I am **not** saying that Johnny or Vanessa has financial problems. I am saying it is smart to make good financial decisions while you have money so you don't lose it.
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Post by shellysmom on Feb 15, 2013 15:46:25 GMT 1
But they still went on board last summer... And about the link between JD and VP, thta's true but I know divorced persons who never meet again even for their children. Wow that is really sad for the children involved. Do you really believe that everyone is like that?
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Post by Deleted on Feb 15, 2013 22:13:20 GMT 1
But they still went on board last summer... And about the link between JD and VP, thta's true but I know divorced persons who never meet again even for their children. Wow that is really sad for the children involved. Do you really believe that everyone is like that? I do, my own parents, once they separated (they weren't married neither but together since a long long time) I was around Lilly's age and I wasn't that sad because they never spoke again andit's not like they finished in bad terms, but that's just my experience and I'm not saying this is their situation just trying to say that ludi is right there, I know other people that never spoke or meet again not even for their children it's something natural that you don't have any interest to keep contact with your ex, I know it sounds cold but kids are adaptable, they get used to it with time.
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Post by shellysmom on Feb 16, 2013 1:52:26 GMT 1
The point I was trying to get across is that not *everyone* is on bad terms with an ex. I know that there are people who are on bad terms but there are also people who maintain a polite relationship with their ex.
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Post by ludi76 on Feb 16, 2013 11:09:47 GMT 1
I never said EVERYONE. I said SOME people are like that. I have several friends or work colleagues who have no contact with their ex, except when they have to decide important things about the children. They avoid to see their ex even for family events like weddings or funerals. And children don't want to see their father either.
So about Johnny and Vanessa, I hope it's not like that. They seem caring and loving so much their children that I think they try to be in good terms and to see each other for the children but we can't be sure...
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Post by blackwidow on Feb 16, 2013 21:23:10 GMT 1
Look at the bright side of it, at least we won't have those dumb rumors anymore of Vanessa using it with one of her "boyfriends" or reconciliation rumors with JD because she is in the yatch, neither the paparazzis taking lots of pictures of the kids the pictures of last year were lovely but so invasive for those poor children.
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Post by ludi76 on Feb 17, 2013 10:33:09 GMT 1
Well, I loved these pics !
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Post by shellysmom on Feb 17, 2013 17:12:43 GMT 1
Look at the bright side of it, at least we won't have those dumb rumors anymore of Vanessa using it with one of her "boyfriends" or reconciliation rumors with JD because she is in the yatch, neither the paparazzis taking lots of pictures of the kids the pictures of last year were lovely but so invasive for those poor children. I agree with you Black Widow. I think the paparazzi is way to invasive. I do not think the paparazzi should be able to take pictures of a celebrities underage children. The only exception would be if they attended a function (awards ceremony etc.) with their parents. I feel bad for Lily Rose the paparazzi follow her around constantly. They act like she is a celebrity. She is not a celebrity she is the child of celebrities.
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