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Post by josette on Aug 28, 2012 0:16:54 GMT 1
So not always the same man. I thought you talked about the same man... No, If at least they say only one man and keep on writing rumors about one man only, but every month is someone new  it's funny because I thought they would leave her alone and concentrate only on Johnny and link him with everybody but it's happening on the other way, who would tell!  . I don't get why press and magazines are so eager about she having a boyfriend  .. not only the french press also US press! they started with the rumors about Biolay (even before the split announcement) then they threw Lenny whom she doesn't have contact in ages, and Nollet, and The UK press, they were saying she was with 100% with M . But it's getting somewhat silly, the poor woman can't be anywhere near to a man because they are dating! lol the other day with Allyson's boyfriend, they were not even close to each other, not so hard to figure out he was a member of the family and they said it was Nollet . And now we have this magazine which is not very reliable, about this guy.. I don't believe it but let's see. But I must admit, like them, I'm very curious about if there's really a "new man" on her life.. pure curiosity |
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Post by ludi76 on Aug 28, 2012 6:31:13 GMT 1
In French press, they are focused only on Vanessa because she is so famous here. They talk about Johnny to criticize him.
But about her new supposed lover, it's not the first time we heard she is dating a rich man...
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Post by josette on Aug 28, 2012 6:36:24 GMT 1
yeah I know, but why it has to be a rich man lol, can't it be an ordinary man with an ordinary job ..
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Post by ludi76 on Aug 28, 2012 18:00:34 GMT 1
I don't think Vanessa will be one day with an ordinary man. Not her type and not her world.
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Post by cari on Aug 28, 2012 20:20:59 GMT 1
Just my opinion, but I would think that after separating from a 14-year relationship, and having to take care of two children, jumping into another relationship, immediately, should be the furtherest thing from her mind. You shouldn't be 'looking" for someone new, for it to have meaning, it should be something that happens naturally, over time. As for Johnny's rumored relationships, that's all they are, is rumors. He's busy filming and spending his off time with his friends. He has been seen with absolutely no one. Since the tabloids have been unable to come up with anything, they are now being a bit quiet. That's what they always do, when they spread rumors, then can't back them up. Now, the French press is fabricating relationships with anyone Vanessa has ever been seen with. They can't comprehend that "being with someone" might not be the most important thing on her mind, right now.
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Post by josette on Aug 30, 2012 0:13:00 GMT 1
agree Cari  |
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Post by avi on Aug 30, 2012 5:29:38 GMT 1
But if the thing is how it's commented, then they're been separated for months now ...so to me, the most normal thing it would be if they're "experimenting" again...Or anyone is expecting they become celibate for years? that's odd... And after14 years of a relationship (pressure, rutine, responsabilities) I think to date a twenty something years old is what the doctors recommend ;D (less drama)...probably, they aren't looking for a serious relationship so soon!...just having a bit of fun I know because the machism (or maybe because JD has the fame to move from a relationship to another really fast?) it's hard to believe that Vanessa also can be in "something" new...but as we say in my country "un clavo saca a otro clavo"... "one nail drives out another nail"...so it could be even healthy for her!! Yep, but in my country we are barbarians so maybe isn't the most used method in other places ;D |
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Post by ludi76 on Aug 30, 2012 6:40:53 GMT 1
So you're Italian ? LOL
Maybe a not serious relationship but being in love, it's difficult to me after such an intense and long love and finally a disappointment about this relationship.... Personnally, I know it would be impossible to me and I would have fear this new relationship would be disappointing as well...
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Post by josette on Aug 30, 2012 9:22:06 GMT 1
So you're Italian ? LOL Maybe a not serious relationship but being in love, it's difficult to me after such an intense and long love and finally a disappointment about this relationship.... Personnally, I know it would be impossible to me and I would have fear this new relationship would be disappointing as well... ludi are you talking about a relationship of yours, or a relationship of Vanessa as how would you feel on her place? I'm confussed lol  If you are talking about Vanessa I agree, but she doesn't strike me as an insecure person but of course I don't know her feels or I don't know how things finished but generally mommies after breaking up with the father of their children wait a long time, in most of the cases it's always like that (I'm not saying this is the case of her I'm just saying generally).. my mom brokeup with my dad after more than 20 years of union (but in the last three years they were always apart in different and very far countries), not married and with two children [my sister and I], my mom met him when she was only 17 years old, they split because my dad always had troubles with alcohol and of course too much distance, after the split she waited like 2 years and she was alone all the time no "special friend", alone, although she wasn't too sad or insecure she waited for the "one" or the "right man", I hope Vanessa won't be alone so much time and find the right man sooner (if she still is alone) , if not that would make me kind of sad |
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Post by blackwidow on Aug 30, 2012 9:50:08 GMT 1
I said i was not going to comment on this thread, but my god, josette , it amazed me how much of the the things you said of your parents match with some aspects of Johnny and Vanessa at one point it's like hearing about J & V, but you are actually talking about your parents, I hope this comparison won't offend you or make you feel bad . |
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Post by ludi76 on Aug 30, 2012 17:51:08 GMT 1
I talked as if I were her. I think if it happened to me, I would be so upset and disappointed that I would wait for a long time before having someone else...
And all the women I know who split with their man after a long relationship feel the same.
(I precise I'm single myself).
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Post by cari on Aug 30, 2012 20:15:05 GMT 1
I think, with this thread, you have to be careful about putting personal wants and fantasies in Vanessa's life. Talking about what she should do, in her life, regarding a future relationship, is a bit too personal. And assuming what Vanessa and Johnny's troubles were, or how long they were separated is disrespectful to both of them. Yes, it's a rumor thread, but it shouldn't stray into what you, yourself, believe to be true. That's when it get's tricky. No one here has any idea what their problems were or why it didn't work for them anymore. Maybe it was mostly Johnny's fault, or maybe it was mostly Vanessa's fault...or maybe they just grew too far apart to care, anymore. Unless they tell us themselves, we will never know. The tabloids have been full of speculation, but they don't actually know, either.
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Post by ludi76 on Aug 30, 2012 20:25:01 GMT 1
Pff... we can't say anything in this topic. We never said what she should do or not. Just expressed the feelings of most of women after a split.
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Post by josette on Aug 30, 2012 22:58:46 GMT 1
Pff... we can't say anything in this topic. We never said what she should do or not. Just expressed the feelings of most of women after a split. three words "pff" , just like you say, I have the feeling that people here turn messages into other things that no one has said, or entirely misunderstand what people say... nevermind I know what you were getting at and you understood me, of course we were talking about what most of mommies do, not what Vanessa has to do.. |
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Post by josette on Aug 30, 2012 23:01:05 GMT 1
and no blackwidow your message doesn't offend me at all, I thought the same..
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Post by chou on Aug 30, 2012 23:16:28 GMT 1
Putting yourself in someone else's shoes isn't offensive. It's empathy. It's how we understand each other as people.
If we're going to discuss rumours about Vanessa, then there's going to be some dissection of her choices, and some trying to understand what we would do in that situation. I think as long as the writing remains respectful (i.e. no personal attacks, etc.) we should be able to write any way we please about these stories.
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Post by guest2 on Aug 31, 2012 2:17:34 GMT 1
Putting yourself in someone else's shoes isn't offensive. It's empathy. It's how we understand each other as people. If we're going to discuss rumours about Vanessa, then there's going to be some dissection of her choices, and some trying to understand what we would do in that situation. I think as long as the writing remains respectful (i.e. no personal attacks, etc.) we should be able to write any way we please about these stories. Yes some people here try to shut everybody with silly excuses but don't realise what this thread is about and that here we talk about it as we please, it's easy, if you don't like it dont read it nobody here has said anything bad or attacked anybody. I don't know what is the case of Vanessa, nobody knows.. but I could bet that It won't be easy for her to get into a new relationship, I really wish she finds a loving sweet guy who loves her equally and have time for her |
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Post by vpdansus on Aug 31, 2012 3:32:40 GMT 1
zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz geesh.
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Post by cari on Sept 1, 2012 6:59:54 GMT 1
Ok, then this isn't a thread to discuss gossip, it's a thread to discuss everyone's personal feelings on divorce and separation and to daydream about the perfect man for Vanessa. And maybe, with her next guy, she will have time for him, also.
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Post by pearl on Sept 1, 2012 10:31:40 GMT 1
And maybe, with her next guy, she will have time for him, also.
That was a good one.Here in this site,most members still putting blame on Johnny.
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it's funny because I thought they would leave her alone and concentrate only on Johnny and link him with everybody but it's happening on the other way, who would tell! 
. I don't get why press and magazines are so eager about she having a boyfriend 
.. not only the french press also US press! they started with the rumors about Biolay (even before the split announcement) then they threw Lenny whom she doesn't have contact in ages, and Nollet, and The UK press, they were saying she was with 100% with M 
