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Post by Lotanx3 on Mar 28, 2012 18:10:27 GMT 1
I fully agree with you Kitty. I want the best for Vanessa, but she already made a comment about this issue and we should trust her, not trying to speculate. That's just my opinion.
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Post by bibelot on Mar 28, 2012 19:05:11 GMT 1
evochka, I am sorry that I gave you the wrong impression of my posts. As I stated previously, I was a member of the old board; you must not remember me. I have always been a responsibly poster. When I made my posts here, I had no idea that I would be opening a can of worms and appear like a "troll".
I remember all of the open-hearted posts that were allowed on the old board. I remember posting with out fear of judgement, and attack. We could discuss anything. I finally found this board, and for the very first time, I posted my observations about the lack of a ring - which I found even stranger given her declaration that she and Johnny were back together. I meant no harm. I just miss seeing that exquisite ring on her left hand!
Kittycat has always been so eloquent in her posts and I agree with her 110%! Just because I questioned the missing ring does not mean that I don't keep happy thoughts for Vanessa and wish her the best and brightest of everything.
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Post by bibelot on Mar 28, 2012 19:12:48 GMT 1
Emilie, you have said it much better than I. I remember your enthusiastic and informative posts from the old board.
Sadly, I am not feeling so welcome here - would you mind sharing the vp.net site?
I would love to explore it as an option for sharing my feelings, and respect, for Vanessa. Thanks!
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Post by Lotanx3 on Mar 28, 2012 19:48:43 GMT 1
I really don't get this 'mutiny' against this site. We expressed our humble opinions just as you did.
But oh well. I wish you the best, have a great day.
And, I'm disappointed that people choose to leave the forum. I haven't been here for a long time, just a couple of months, but this forum and it's people are great. Non of us want to 'hurt' Vanessa in any way. We want to respect her, and as it has been said before, it was obviously easier to discuss her private life in the past because everything was 'positive'. And right now, it's a bit...awkward. In my humble opinion, discussing the rumors won't make them go away and won't change anything. I do care a lot about Vanessa and I want the best for her, but I'll definitely won't be a help if I'll discuss her life.
As I said before, I'm saying by the 100th time I think...[ ;D ], I'm sorry if I've been disrespectful and if I pissed off any of you. My last intention is to get into fights, I like this forum. Just expressed my opinion about the whole issue.
But, this thread makes me feel like I'm not kind enough so it might be better if I'll stop making comments.
Have a good day.
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Post by Lotanx3 on Mar 28, 2012 20:10:31 GMT 1
There ya go buddies...a thread made especially for rumors. ;D
Not that I support it but I wouldn't want people to leave because there's no thread they can discuss the rumor...who am I to stop you from doing it...I feel bad that people choose to leave!
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Post by bibelot on Mar 28, 2012 20:47:02 GMT 1
Wow Lotanx. One minute you say you will stop making comments and passing judgement, and the next minute you feel the need to let us know- yet-again- that you do not approve and then you pass judgment again!
I truly appreciate the effort made that went into creating this!!
I hope that it continues in the spirit in which it was created - a forum for those who wish to peacefully express themselves on topics that may or may not, be factual but peak the curiosity of fans and of all things Vanessa. As for me, I will be moving on to where it's not so judgemental and where you don't have to prove yourself a caring fan and held to the standards of another fan.
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Post by Lotanx3 on Mar 28, 2012 20:51:41 GMT 1
I don't know if I should be offended or not. I really don't understand it.
I do feel like I should comment less because it didn't go well. But I definitely don't want people to leave.
What can I do, it's your own choice.
I take it too personal because I think I did something wrong.
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Post by Aline on Mar 28, 2012 22:24:50 GMT 1
I don't think it is a big deal to talk about this issue since we are all fans of Vanessa. Plus, someone leaves because of this. We all love Vanessa and care about her, so we are worried about the situation, its normal. And I don't think bibelot is a troll, I may not reply on every topic but I come here everyday and read all the coments, and I've seen some trolls (once I got into the fight) but I don't think thats the case. Peace guys!  |
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Post by Serendipity on Mar 29, 2012 2:59:23 GMT 1
This forum has always been a place where we can talk openly about Vanessa. However, there really isn't a need to keep bringing all these issues up over and over and in different threads. There's nothing else to be said until some new OFFICIAL development happens. Until then, please don't post about this stuff around the board, it will help all of us get back to normal appreciation of Vanessa's career, photos, and appearances! That means when she shows up next, we don't all need to say "She's hiding her ring" or wonder what it means. We all get it, we're all paying attention.
I know we all have Vanessa's best interest at heart, or none of us would be here. So with that said, I'm sure she'd appreciate it if we just calmed down for a while, dropped the subject for good.
This isn't the type of board where we censor people, but for the sake of making this a fun environment for Vanessa's English-speaking fans, please know that repetitive posts about Vanessa's personal life are not appreciated. I hope you all agree.
Especially, please avoid bringing it up in threads that are about other things, like events and photos.
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Post by evochka on Mar 29, 2012 9:32:35 GMT 1
evochka, I am sorry that I gave you the wrong impression of my posts. As I stated previously, I was a member of the old board; you must not remember me. I have always been a responsibly poster. When I made my posts here, I had no idea that I would be opening a can of worms and appear like a "troll". I remember all of the open-hearted posts that were allowed on the old board. I remember posting with out fear of judgement, and attack. We could discuss anything. I finally found this board, and for the very first time, I posted my observations about the lack of a ring - which I found even stranger given her declaration that she and Johnny were back together. I meant no harm. I just miss seeing that exquisite ring on her left hand! Kittycat has always been so eloquent in her posts and I agree with her 110%! Just because I questioned the missing ring does not mean that I don't keep happy thoughts for Vanessa and wish her the best and brightest of everything. bibelot I never told you don't keep happy thoughts for Vanessa. I was member of old board too, maybe not too long but don't remember so active discussion of tabloids things. Repeating here old gossips again and again we attach them bigger importance than they really deserves, my opinion. |
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Post by Deleted on Mar 30, 2012 1:29:32 GMT 1
I just don't won't nobody leaving the forum over this.
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Post by MarieClaire on Apr 2, 2012 17:54:46 GMT 1
I remember bibelot from the old forum and she was never one to dwell on the rumours. I've seen her referred to as a "troll" here and haven't thought it very appropiate, just because she posts about the whereabouts of Van's ring - I have noticed the missing 'love ring' often and wondered myself.
I think Kim's suggestion of a separate thread for rumours is a very good one - whoever wants to post can post and these comments won't be posted around the rest of the forum so whoever doesn't like them won't be bothered by them!
I also agree with Emilie-Jolie; the forum has a different vibe these days. I am - of course - not looking to offend anybody. Personally, it just doesn't feel quite the same. I used to LOVE checking the VP forum.
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Post by Lotanx3 on Apr 2, 2012 18:33:37 GMT 1
Well if I offended anybody I apologize.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 2, 2012 21:46:10 GMT 1
I remember bibelot from the old forum and she was never one to dwell on the rumours. I've seen her referred to as a "troll" here and haven't thought it very appropiate, just because she posts about the whereabouts of Van's ring - I have noticed the missing 'love ring' often and wondered myself. I think Kim's suggestion of a separate thread for rumours is a very good one - whoever wants to post can post and these comments won't be posted around the rest of the forum so whoever doesn't like them won't be bothered by them! I also agree with Emilie-Jolie; the forum has a different vibe these days. I am - of course - not looking to offend anybody. Personally, it just doesn't feel quite the same. I used to LOVE checking the VP forum. I agree %100 with all you said!!! |
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Post by MarieClaire on Apr 4, 2012 19:45:46 GMT 1
I remember bibelot from the old forum and she was never one to dwell on the rumours. I've seen her referred to as a "troll" here and haven't thought it very appropiate, just because she posts about the whereabouts of Van's ring - I have noticed the missing 'love ring' often and wondered myself. I think Kim's suggestion of a separate thread for rumours is a very good one - whoever wants to post can post and these comments won't be posted around the rest of the forum so whoever doesn't like them won't be bothered by them! I also agree with Emilie-Jolie; the forum has a different vibe these days. I am - of course - not looking to offend anybody. Personally, it just doesn't feel quite the same. I used to LOVE checking the VP forum. I agree %100 with all you said!!! Thanks Kim!  |
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Post by Deleted on Apr 5, 2012 8:07:49 GMT 1
^You're very welcome!!!
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Post by sweetjd on Apr 5, 2012 13:37:56 GMT 1
I remember bibelot from the old forum and she was never one to dwell on the rumours. I've seen her referred to as a "troll" here and haven't thought it very appropiate, just because she posts about the whereabouts of Van's ring - I have noticed the missing 'love ring' often and wondered myself. I think Kim's suggestion of a separate thread for rumours is a very good one - whoever wants to post can post and these comments won't be posted around the rest of the forum so whoever doesn't like them won't be bothered by them! I also agree with Emilie-Jolie; the forum has a different vibe these days. I am - of course - not looking to offend anybody. Personally, it just doesn't feel quite the same. I used to LOVE checking the VP forum. I completely agree I do not want to offend anyone on here as I love everyone here but I do feel the vibe of the forum has change which inevitably it would to over time which can be great for a forum, however I do feel that some opinions on Vanessa get jumped on too quickly by other members We all love Vanessa but if someone wants to write a comment out of the norm we should let them (up to a point) I like the fact now there is a separate place for members to talk about the rumors, I as yet haven't commented on them as I don't wish to, but I know others do, so I think it's a good thing for a forum to discuss all the aspects they would like to without fear of getting jumped on. |
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Post by MarieClaire on Apr 5, 2012 18:48:30 GMT 1
Well said, sweetjd. :-)
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Post by avi on Apr 5, 2012 20:32:02 GMT 1
Well at least, some media recognizes that they know nothing I found this looking for her last pictures... [/i] ... There’s still nothing definitive about Vanessa and Johnny though. It’s been 3 months since PEOPLE’s cover story declared them “all but finished” but now no one really knows for sure. For instance, she still flies on his private service and they have been in LA on a few weekends at the same time several times. Of course that’s understandable too as they share children.
Dark Shadows promotion however should be starting soon and we may get some more insight. While JD certainly has the power to request a ban on personal questions, everyone will be angling to get one in there. He might not be able to escape it. [/quote] www.laineygossip.com/Articles/Details/23157/Vanessa-Paradis-in-Paris-not-with-Johnny-Depp-meets-with-Benjamin-BiolayWise thing to do: To expect "Dark Shadows" promotion  |
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Post by Lotanx3 on Apr 5, 2012 21:28:24 GMT 1
Meh, the tabloids will attach any random person to Johnny/Vanessa just to base their 'facts'. That's my opinion anyway. For example, the tabloids said that Johnny hooked up with Ashley Olsen in NY. She wasn't even in NY, she was at the Oscars during that time. So in my opinion it's rubbish.
I also thought it's the best to wait for Dark Shadows promotions. Don't know if anyone will ask Johnny about these rumors since the interviewers are getting instructions of what they can ask and what not, but I still hope he'll say something about it! The best way to stop the rumors is just saying the truth already...that's what I believe, is the best way.
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